不和自己相争，是一种解脱

现实之中，那些损害起初就是一次性的。但因为你的执念，它才促使地给你造成更大的恐惧。

In reality, those injuries are one-off. But because of your obsession, it continues to cause you greater pain.

只不过成熟的人，自已会跟生活习惯过分死磕，而是懂得以天和的心态，远离没用人和没用事，要懂得赶走自己。

A truly mature person will never blindly fight with life, but knows how to stay away from bad people and things with a peaceful attitude, and know how to let go of himself.

不与没用人争辩，是一种清醒。卡耐基曾话说：在争论之中完胜的唯一方式，就是避开争论。人生在世，不与没用人白费口舌，是清醒，更是可贵的生活习惯智慧。

It's sober not to argue with rotten people. Carnegie once said: the only way to win in an argument is to oid it. Life in the world, do not waste words with rotten people, is sober, but also a rare wisdom of life.

不跟没用事纠缠，是一种深思熟虑，有句话话说得好：“当你凝视炼狱时，炼狱也在凝视你。”别为打翻的果汁看着，别为徒劳无功的没用事纠缠。学会及时抽身，才能避开更大的麻烦与损害。

It's wise not to be entangled with bad things. There is a good saying: "when you stare at the abyss, the abyss is staring at you." Don't cry over spilled milk, don't pester about irreparable bad things. Learn to get out in time in order to oid greater trouble and injury.

不和自己较劲，是一种觉悟。很多时候，跟自己过于较劲，不一定会消除内耗，给自己套上此时此刻。当你放下心之中的负累，造得一颗从容心，才能要用一个在手人。

It's a relief not to compete with yourself. Many times, too much competition with yourself will often lead to internal friction and put chains on yourself. When you put down the burden in your heart and cultivate a calm heart, you can be a free man.